Loving What Is

We're having a tough time at my house.

My husband has fourth stage cancer.

He's now in a whole second series of chemotherapy. And chemotherapy has some pretty yucky side effects. One of them has been migraine headaches for him, another one has been some loss of cognitive function.

Another one has been the loss of control over his bowels, and also his urinary tract.

So we have pretty much a faucet going on at our house at any given time. And it's completely unpredictable. And I don't need to tell you that this is not an ideal situation.

We laugh about it, thank goodness, we laugh about it, because there's not a thing we can do about it; there's not a thing that medical model can do to help him with this.

Other than all the things that you're going to write to me and tell me about. We've already done all those. Thank you.

So here we are, when it's 2am, and all of a sudden, there's a brown pool in the bed.

What do you do?

There would have been a time in my life when I probably would have yelled about this, or I would have been dropping some four letter words, or I would have been maybe even unkind. 

And now I'm up to my elbows in feces.

And what I'm finding is that there is a certain amount of grace that's coming into our experience that is blessing me. And it's blessing Jim. A lot of our relief has come in through humor.

Something I love doing is channeling. I decided to ask my Higher-Self the other day just what am I supposed to be learning from this?

And here is my answer.

"You are going to learn deeper levels of compassion and understanding as you walk this path with Jim. He is your teacher. He is your mirror. Learn every last bit of what is in front of you. Learn it with an open heart. Do not resist any of this experience. Resistance will only prolong the situation and cause deeper pain."

I went on to say... 

"Loving what is... 'love what is', that's what keeps coming into me.

"And my soul said yes. Especially love Jim, just as He is. That's what he needs. The unconditional love brings him peace and comfort."

Unconditional Love, you know, that is really what we talk a lot about in the world. And unconditional love is actually a level of consciousness that we can obtain.

As we work with Energy and we raise our frequency, unconditional love becomes a context in which we live, and move, and have our being.

I have done so much Energy Work in my life that I am blessed by being able to live in that level of consciousness.

Not ever imagining that it would be used for something as sad as this, or as disappointing. I don't even know which words to use. It's just confounding. The situation is confounding.

"Loving What Is"

I studied with Byron Katie (the author of Loving What Is), and I discovered that the fastest way for us to get to the present moment and step into our full power is to release resistance.

And if I am not resisting what's in front of me and my human self, if I am only choosing love, if I am in that consciousness of unconditional love and acceptance, I'm going to draw that out into acceptance, and then all of a sudden, I am 100% present and fully focused in this now moment.

I can then take action from a place of love, from a place of peace, and from a place of joy.

We can even end up laughing about all of the stuff that just splashed up on the wall as Jim took another step. And now I get to clean that up too.

Thank goodness for humor.

Thank goodness for love.

Thank goodness for joy.

Love what is.

I'm Connie Kean with Quantum Energy Infusion--where Everything is Energy!

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